i think i might be bi

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lately I’ve been confused about my sexuality. I’m completely grossed out with the idea of having sex with guys but i feel okay with having sex with girls (im still a virgin though) but i dont have feelings for any girls, just guys. im just really confused i guess

Category: asked May 30, 2014

4 Answers

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there are a lot of really confusing sexualities. you could be heteroromantic, meaning you are only romantically interested on men, but homo- or bi-sexual, implying you are sexually attracted to women. i don't even bother to label myself anymore; i like who i like and that's the end of that. f you are worried your friends will think you are going to start hitting on them or something, try testing the waters. find a tactful way to ask what they feel about that kind of thing, and start sharing your own beliefs in a subtle way. work your way up to telling them. if after you do, they still think you might hit on them, let them know that you've always been this way, and you never hit on them before. make a joke of it if you can ('oh come on, they aren't that attractive') or something similar. if they can't accept this part of you, then they can't accept all of you. it's harsh, but true. being different isn't easy, but it's not a bad thing either. good luck.
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To me, it sounds like you could be bi, but you also seem straight. Have you talked to someone yet?
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not yet. if i told my friends, they'd probably think that ill start hitting on them or something.
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I've seen so many people get confused with this. Just wait it out don't decide until your completely sure. You might just feel this way cause your young and you just haven't met enough people to know for sure. Keep an open mind.