I think i am in love with my best friend?

Hi Kate! I can offer an opinion in hopes that it helps. I understand that you don't want to ruin the friendship but if you feel that way you should probably tell him. Being a great friend if he starts or is dating someone it will eat you up and probably cause you to resent him anyways.You never know how he feels and honestly if you don't tell him you may end up regretting it. It's better to try and fail then to live with regrets. At least you'll know where you stand and if he doesn't feel the same way then it wasn't meant to be. If you want more then a friendship and pretend it's just a friend are you being honest with him and yourself?

Hey kate, I would definantly suggest telling him how you feel, but In an effort to not make things awkward maybe try working it into a casual conversation like start talking about the good ol' days and get onto the subject of the dances and see if he remembers asking you out, if he does see if he feels the same way as he did back then. If so tell him how you feel, if he doesn't then you can decide from there if you want to tell him or not you'll already be talking about the past so maybe you can tell him then if it feels right. I hope this helps.