i still have feelings but idk, help please !

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Okay, so it was the end of the school semester about 4 more weeks till school ended. So there’s this boy that everyone has been shipping me with and I used to like him at the start of the school year but then end my feelings for him along the path. But we were just close friends and the more people shipped us the more I felt I liked him and the more awkward it got between us. His cousin (which is a girl) took us out of class and said I need to tell youse ”something important” then she was like why don’t youse date? and at that moment I tried to hide my feelings for him I and he backed out fast and quick then we treated it like a joke and walked away quickly. now over this 6 week holidays, it is new years right then I decided to cut him off for the best of me because it’s obvious he doesn’t have feelings for me. does he? I’ve never asked. Everyone says its the way he looks at me and I was like why can’t he look at me he looks at you just to dodge It but I doubt its true he has feelings for me or ever will. So I needed to stop thinking about him so on new years I cut him off I told him im going to cut him off and he said ” do that then ” and I was upset ya know. but ever since I cut him off all I do is think about him more. and something weirded he used to look at my stories all the time now he doesn’t at all. Should I just fix things for the sake of it? Should I confess my feelings for him? those are my questions also, how will I confess my feelings? someone please give me advice!!

asked January 6, 2019

2 Answers

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If he's your close friend then don't cut him off I suggest you bring it up and say something like do you think it's weird that people ship us or did you evee consider it. Talk to him tell him that he's important to you and get that bond back see if you still like him because people tend to me better in our imagination. Go into the friendship with an open mind try not to let your mind take over. If he doesn't like you then I suggest you confess to him and distance yourself a little but don't completely cut him out.
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If he wanted you, he would have made an effort or given you a clear sign that he was more upset about this. The fact that he was cool to brush it off doesnt look good, im afraid.I think you are thinking about him so much because he made it so easy for you to walk away and you wanted him to pay more attention and fight for you. In time, you'll stop letting this matter consume your thoughts so much but for now its gonna feel real terrible for a while, I'm sorry. I hope you get over this soon.If he is in your friendship group then be civil, because you are going to have to see his face all the time. Feeling like you are in control will help you manage your residual feelings for him. You can be in control by controlling your behaviour around him and not doing too much so you dont feel like you're giving too much of yourself away. Be cool, it always gets better.