I have a very good friend, I’ve know him since we were little. We are really close and I know everything about him except we don’t really talk. How do I tell him I wish we talked more and are actual friends
If you never ask then your answer will always be no.
If you never give it a try then you will always fail.
Go to him and tell him, I miss talking to you, tell him that you wanna talk again.
Maybe you can start out by talking about the things that he seems interested in. Sometimes when people seem genuinely interested in the things you value personally then you will be more likely to open up. Good Luck
If I were you, I would find something that he is really good at or really interested in, and ask him about those things. For example, if he is really good at illustrations, I would ask him to teach me draw better. If he is interested in game apps, I would ask him to recommend me some good ones. Start from there and then gradually talk more with him.
Be like "i feel like we've barely hung out recently, we should hang out again soon!" and then just make it a normal thing until you hit him up more often. It's no big deal at all. If he's your friend, he wouldn't mind hanging out with you at all.
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