I need friend advise?

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I had 3 best friends for years. In 2014, one of them said something rude so I stopped being friends with them. Another friend and I worked on a project worth a lot but I did it all by myself while she made “extremely good fries” and since it was a group project and I was the only one who worked on it, we failed. I cut my friendship with her. My last best friend moved to another country. During this time, We were also friends with another girl. She was popular and outgoing. and honest. She criticized everybody and started a lot of drama. She was a friend that I had to stand by because I cut the relationships from my best friends. Just recently, someone told me she was talking behind my back, and she knew that I knew. I wasn’t surprised since she thinks she is all that. She has a talent of making people feel bad and getting people to side with her. Additionally, she posted a photo with ALL my ex-best friends and tagged ME on the photo as if she was showing off. I didn’t have a problem with the best friend that moved but she lied to me and told me she wasn’t coming back until two months. Anyways, my problem is that I really need to cut off my friendship with that one friend, but if I do so, all my other friends will think I just did it for no reason, they see no evil from her. I can’t explain it to them either because they will always defend her.
-Don’t tell me that my remaining friends aren’t true friends because they are all I have
-It’s all true I didn’t exaggerate anything

Category: asked March 20, 2015

2 Answers

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it's okay to cut her off, cause if your three "bestfriends" were REALLY your friend, they wouldn't fall for that trap. the situation really shows where their loyalty lays, let them stick together see how long it will last :). and don't worry about what other people think, they'll see in time the reason why. may take sometime but it's worth it
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It's better to have others questioning why you cut her off than stay in all of this drama. They'll either forget about it and move on (which is what normally happens in time) or they'll eventually see why you cut her off. Your life will be a lot better without having these issues in it than staying with these "bestfriends" who constantly stress you out and cause problems