I need advice for a relationship

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There’s this guy who I hang out with he’s nice funny an makes me feel good about myself. Sadly he has a girl friend of 5 years!!! I mean that’s a long time and I never thought I would be “the other girl” but he’s the one who initiates the intimacy I just love hiking and playing pool and tennis with him and his brother (who I’ve liked way before him but he told me he doesn’t want a relationship) anyways I don’t know what to do should I keep seeing him I hopes he will figure out he has feelings for me give up and go for the other guy or just give up compleatly which would crush me cause I love hanging out with him. Once I spent 6hrs with him and it felt like a couple on minutes. :/ I’m falling for a taken guy

Category: Tags: asked October 16, 2013

4 Answers

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Just wait. Maybe one day they'll break up and you could date him then. Don't go wrecking their relationship though, that's just wrong. If he's happy, then you should be too. Find someone else!
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You need to give up on that he has a girlfriend!!! why would you ruin that? How would you feel if you were in love with someone and a girl was doing this behind your back with your boyfriend? There a so many guys in the world go after one that is not taken have some respect for people.
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Give up completely. This isnt the only guy you're going to get along great with in your life. There are going to be other guys.
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Hate to say it but I think you may be tricking yourself. I think you still may like his brother but since you can't have him, you settled for the other guy.


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