I am 19 soon to be twenty and I am blessed with a lot of gifts. I once read a saying that read “The more genius you are the more tormented your soul will be.” I cannot help but think this true. Though I have been described by many as highly intelligent, blessed, gifted, and a creative genius; I also have many afflictions.
The most recent one that has been on my mind is that involving love and relationships. I have a habit of fancying men older then myself. I have had sex, relationships, and involvement with men anywhere from 2-15 years older than me. I do not doubt this is a result of me being sexually molested at 5 by a older boy that lived in the same neighborhood. The two relationships I have had with men were 2-4 years older than me and lasted longer than 8 months generally. Overall I have a distrust to cisgender heterosexual males and it is leading to me not wanting to use them for anything but sex. I am pansexual and so this part of my past is leading me to not desire this small group of the human population as much.
I have an addiction to sex, in my opinion. I will place myself in situations where I always have a sexual partner available should I want it. I do not know why this is something I do. I think it is for intimacy that I do not get from normal social interactions.
As my name suggests I am am introvert. I see the world differently than everyone else. I do not fit in and damn well I do not because I wouldn’t want to. I see the beauty in everything, and I feel like not enough people look for it in everything. With that being said I am very selective of those I will allow to be a part if my life. If you are a bigot, sexist, racist, or any of those undesirable traits I will immediately rule you out of my circle of potential friends. This being said a lot of people do not understand me and they think I am rude or disrespectful or snobby. They take my silence in social situations as me being stuck up. When all it means is if you are just throwing meaningless words in the wind the room would be better filled with silence.
I spend a lot of time in my head and I love to be there but times like these when my head gets so full of negative thoughts and I cannot bear to sit in silence because the noise in my brain is so overwhelming make me need to write my feelings. So here it is.
Also I am looking to fancy woman and though I see them all as beautiful creatures none seem to fancy me back.
Please tell me your thoughts on all of this! Thank you for takin the time to reply!!
Much love!