I like him, but I’m suppose to hate him..What do I do?

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So, there is this boy I like. I have had a crush on him ever since I met which was three years ago. We started talking and became really close. Then we started dating.. The relationship only lasted nineteen hours. I went on a field trip the whole day, so I didn’t see him at all that day, then he broke up with me because one of his friends liked me. This didn’t bother me and remained friends. A year later, we are still friends, but have gotten even closer. We became best friends. We had petty arguments every once in a while, but we always became friends again. I still had feelings for him and he knew it, but I didn’t let that get in the way of our friendship. One day we were texting like usual and he told me he liked me. We talked about for an hour or two, then started dating again. He broke up with me eight days later, and to this day he won’t tell me why. Unforunately, I still have feelings for him and it’s has been a year later. We were still friends just not as close. This past weekend we got in a huge argument. I was really mad at him and told him that I hated him and hoped we never become friends again. My problem is….I still like him. It’s killing me not talking to him. All day in school, I have been sad and silent. All my friends have been asking me what’s wrong, but I tell them I’m fine. I just don’t know what to do…

Category: Tags: asked October 15, 2013

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You know what , dont get pushed around .. Hannahcarolyn have just told you that the best option for you its to move on and i agree with it but .. on the other said I WOULDNT LET HIM GO JUST LIKE THAT .. You were and still are in love with him and you two been in relationship so he have liked you as well, you gues were beeing friend for quiet a time and after everyfight and argument still get the friendship back on its truck .. so as i said
Dont let him go like that . dont give up , YOU CANT PUSH HIM TO LOVE YOU THATS RIGHT ! but you deserve to know why all this happen why he dumped you and why cant he be honest with you right now . Dont let it go just like that until you dont know the truth ..
You will not be able to move on if you keep be sitting like this and asking question " why did he left me" you cant erase your memories as well as feeling . I wish you the best and please BE BRAVE . LET me know how it went ,inbox me here.
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I'm about to say something you may not want to hear, but it needs to be said- the best thing for you to do is move on sweetie. It sounds like you truly do like this person, and who am I to blame you? He must be awfully charming to have captivated your attention for such a long period of time. But it is evident that this boy does not share the same feelings that you do, and even if your wildest dreams came true and he did go into ANOTHER relationship with you, you would always deserve better. From what I've read he sounds like he wouldn't treat you right and you would never be 100% happy. You still have time to find someone who will love and appreciate you as much as you will love them, that's what true love is :) I hope this helped!
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I'm gonna save you so much time right now. MOVE ON. It's hard yes, but it's tough love. Do whatever you can to steer clear of him. And live your life. Don't worry about boys. they come and go. Focus on yourself & someone will appreciate that SOO much one day. Just keep waiting for that one day.. Trust.
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Sorry hun but I agree with everyone else. He's not good for you. If someone liked as much as you think you like him, they couldn't hurt you like that. Move on. You can do better.