I like a guy and he treats me rudely but i cant stop myself.
I like this guy and have for a very long time. Our parents are friends so we are together a LOT. He just told me he liked me about 2 months ago. Since he told me he liked me he started ignoring me. We facetimed once but just so he could tell me he liked some one else. He is known as a player and his super popular but I cant stop myself from liking him, I have tried to like other people to get my mind off him but it doesn’t help.
I don't believe in the use-someone-to-get-over-someone theory, instead focus on you, on your happiness, on your well-being, find new hobbies, go to the gym, do stuff for yourself and everything will fall into place in the end.
Listen, guys like this only look for a reputation to get as many girls as possible. He may have wanted you sexually, and he probably saw that you weren't going to put up with it. All I have to say is boys like that are trouble, the best thing for you to do is to pretend he didn't happen because i all realitty he won't ever matter to someone in his life if he keeps it up.
If he said he likes you, take that as a compliment. But if he is interested in someone else, respect that. You would want the same reaction. Everyone is just trying to figure things out. There are SO many people in this world. As far as him being rude, NO women deserves to be treated rudely. And in such a short period of time, that could be a signal of things to come. Or, maybe its just miscommunication. Also, who cares if he is popular or good-looking. Find a guy with a good heart that will still love you when both popularity and looks fade.
I know you guys will hate me for saying this, but I've read that guys like that have something going on in their life, and they just want some happiness. You all are going to be like "no, he's fine, he's just rude." Well, they're rude for a reason, and you never know, you might become good friends! Just talk to him, figure out what's going on. If he denies it, just try to help him out in the best way possible.