I have a huge crush on my bestfriend !

Did she say that you two are too close to date, or are you saying that? Cause if she's open and willing to become romantic with you, and you're attracted to her as well then there shouldn't be a problem. Best friends make the best lovers is what I believe.

I'm in a similar situation to you. however, she is intereted in someone else. she knows that I have feelings for her, I told her. she refused to date me. Right now, we are closer than ever. I still am the good friend I was to her. She realizes how much I care about her and how much she means to me, but there is nothing more than friendship. There is a good side to it; having someone of the opposite sex so close as a friend. In my case, I try to be rational and control my feelings. I try to hide the expectation of her changing her mind deep inside. I think for a guy, the most painful thing is knowing that a girl is interested in you and the hope of being with her one day haunts you day and night. My advice is to move on. Find other people who you are interested in. Forget about the thought of maybe one day you will be with her.

She said that me and her are really close and she doesn't wanna break our friendship, but if we weren't as close like we are she'd date me.. And she said she made a rule to never date friends.. So idk what too do

Yes, it's somewhat true that best friends "could" make the best lovers but in m experience that wasn't the case. And if she is already having trepidation's, I would allow it to flow naturally. Continue to be the best friend that you always have been. I had fallen in love with my best friend many years ago when I saw him start dating and changing his appearance and I was like WOAH. So naturally one thing led to another and we dated for almost 3 years. He would have done anything for me and I missed that in his "friendship" but in a relationship I abused that generosity. Unfortunately we are no longer friends and needless to say he has wound up to be a very successful man in life and doing wonderful and I wish I could take back all the hurtful things I did to him. Once the boundary crossed to physical attraction in changed everything. Good Luck :)

Don't try and force the relationship. Move on and if she realizes how great you are, eventually she will come chasing after you. Then you will be the one with the choice of being with her or not.