i get depressed when i look at myself !!

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i have this problem for soooo long that a long time back i started dieting and lost pounds got hospitalized and had to gain back a few pounds to stay alive ! but what bothers me is that after doing so much and and putting myself in such a stress i dont think that it really helps me !!! the reason to it is that people keep comparing me with my elder sisters and they are like your elder sister has gotten prettier .. its like telling you that you are not pretty !! my mom keeps telling me that “no youre prettier but i bet she says the same to her !! i get it that my sister is pretty but why is it so hard to accept that ! today i realised that yes people are right my sister is prettier than me ! how ? by facebook .. i have 312 friends and she has 277 but still she has 117 likes on her profile picture and i only have 58 likes ! this is really depressing knowing that even if you grow up and start being pretty your elder sister will always grow prettier than you !

Category: asked January 5, 2015

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Let me say upfront: my social graces are limited, anything that may seem offense, I assure you I do not mean to be that way.I do know the pain of being compared to an elder sibling. My brother looked better than me, was healthier than me, and stronger than me. I realize how painful it can be, being looked at at a side-by-side, but pay it no mind. People have been, are, and will be comparing you to your sister. It comes with being a sibling. Also, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. How many of those likes that your sister had come from dogs? You are who you are. No one else can be you. You are unique. Beautiful in your own right. Look in the mirror and see that person. Don't turn away at the sight of "flaws". Look closer and see that beauty is gazing back at you.