I don’t understand!

I go to a sports camp in the holidays. On one (ONE) of the days, this boy came. I partnered with him because my friend had a partner, and his brother came up to him. I’m 99% sure he was saying ‘She likes you!’

And I thought ‘Of course not!’ and proceeded the day as normal.

But the past nights I’ve been having dreams involving him (as well as other members from the sports camp) but he is the primary member.

I don’t understand!

Bear in mind that I’m 13 and I’ve met him once. I know I’m not in love, because I feel nothing, I’m just really confused.

Category: Dating & Relationships asked August 6, 2014

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Shimmering Aura

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The chances are that you don't consider him a love interest, since you didn't mention anything particular about him you "admire". Just because he appears in your dreams doesn't always mean that you feel drawn to him. It's quite normal to dream about recent events. Don't worry too much about it; if you don't love him, you don't. Side note: Researchers are theorizing that we dream because in the beginning we don't know what dangers we'll face, so the brain "makes up" such scenarios to prepare for similar events that you should be ready for.

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cynicalgravy

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Hahaha youh know what i went through the same thing when i was your age, just move past it and try not to think about it .. it may be bad advice but that's what i would do. try to focus on something else.. your not in love its called lust. or maybe sexual attraction..?

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sarah-the-crohnie

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Its probably what his brother told him that makes you dream about him.

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Serendipity

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