I don’t know how to tell my mum I can’t stand living here

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Mum’s boyfriend Sam is unbearable. He’s an awful person, and I can tell he hates me, but it’s not that: he mistreats my mum really badly. He is emotionally abusive and is horrible, and when we’re out with other people he acts all nice but as soon as we get home he is absolutely horrible. I hate living in my own house because of him. I feel so miserable all the time and I don’t feel comfortable in my own house. The last time mum said Sam had to move out, he said if we wanted to get away from him, we had to move out, and mum bought the house so he has no right to it but he just won’t go. But it’s hard because even after stuff like this they still are together now. I feel like I can’t live here anymore but I don’t have anywhere else to go. I keep thinking of what to say to mum, but if I do get her alone (which is very rarely) I can’t pluck up the courage to say anything.

Category: Tags: asked September 9, 2013

2 Answers

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Stay at a friends house un-announced and leave a note on your bed for your mother. Inform her of your feelings and what has to be done should be done. Sam isn't being fair to either you or your mother (if you have siblings them too). He sounds like a possesive control freak! You should stand up to him. Contacting a teacher you can trust or a guidence adviser may help the situation at home :)
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maybe a family counciling session would help if all three of you went...it would be a safe place to make your feelings known.....also , not sure where you live, but here in california if your name is not on the lease ( if sams name is not on the lease of your moms house) the police can arrest you (sam)for tresspassing.....your mom deserves better from all that youve told us ....but maybe your mom does not see it that way....love can be blind and all....so if you are young and have a few years left to live under the same roof, it would behoove you to somehow find a way to pluck the guts to speak up............and should that guy ever lay a hand on you or your mom call the police