i dont even know what to do..

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So one of my bestfriends, lisa, has had a thing with this kid nick (which i didnt know about). Ive known lisa since i was 12, and nick for about two years.. Well heres the thing nick is a HUGE ass flirt, and trys to get with anything that breathes. Like when i was dating my ex he kept trying to break us up just so i would be with him.. that didnt work. anyway, our homecomming was about two weeks ago and like i noticed that they were like all over eachother (not kissing) but cuddling in the stands and i literally took it as lisa being lisa cause she leads every guy on. honestly, that gets me mad. so like our group was laughing and taking stupid ass photos with eachother, and i turn my head to nick like hugging me from behind as “a friend” and then he grabs my butt, like i took it as him being a flirt… well we all go back to this girls house and i text nick asking what that was about, and he said “uhh idk but i have to go”, so whatever. i get fucked up that night at her house and i text the kid saying, “damn i thought you wanted to hu today at homecomming” and he said “i did, and i dont even know why i didnt”. well the next day lisa finds out and fucking gets pissed off at me because i didnt know they were a thing. thats how they started to be a thing.

Now i dont understand this. he snapchats me everyday and he like says “oh you tease” when i wear a sweatshirt.. like your with lisa, theres not reason why you should be even saying that to me.
idk what to do! like, do i tell lisa and ruin me n nicks friendship? or just keep it to myself so noone gets hurt :(

Category: asked October 19, 2013

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If you feel that he will continue to flirt with you and you see it becoming a problem, either tell him it will have to stop or you are telling Lisa. Don't let a high school relationship (more than a friend) interfere with a long term friend. But it's all up to what your priories are.
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Talk to Nick one on one. Make him choose you or Lisa. It's not right for him to be letting both of you on at the same time.