I can’t do this anymore!

Theres this guy I talked about recently, and we were together last year and he’s in my school! He hurted me several times and from him I can’t be happy because I’ve lost him and I dont knw if he has feelings for me! Because this year we used have eye contact with each other! But starting from this week he dont even look at me! Some people told me to talk to him face to face directly… but I could’nt because I still didnt find the right time! And I’m also scared about his answer to me! Im very sensitive person, I cry for stupid things! I cry everyday and every night about him! I want to have a wash brainer! I can’t do this anymore! I think sometimes that he hates me! And I cannot think of what to do.. Im scared. I love him so much! I’ve told him several times but he never believed!

And there’s this girl in our school asked him if him and I were together? And he told her no!
And that really hurted me! Wth? Like did he forget everything about us? I never loved any1 like this!
Sometimes I feel like commiting s suicide! I need help please xx

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Love13

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Okay, this may sound harsh to hear but it has to be said, I have a friend in the same position, she was friends with a guy for her whole life, 16 years and they went out and it ruined everything and they no longer talk, she was torn apart because of this, but honestly? you are still in school, he will not be your last love, I know it seems like that right now, and it hurts like hell but its not the end. Message him on facebook or something? maybe then it will be easier to talk and he won't see your reaction, if he does say no he doesn't like you back anymore then you have no option but to move forward. the girl who asked if you two were going out? what other answer should he give than no? you aren't going out there would be no purpose to dragging up your relationship history its not relevant to his discussion clearly. Committing suicide, is never an option, and over a guy? seriously go talk to someone, a guidance counselor, counselor, therapist etc. Suicide ends the possibility of life ever getting better, nothing is permanent, everything changes, right now it seems like the end of the world I know that, wait and see. one day you'll look back and be glad you never ended your life because of all the great things you would have missed if you had. It inflicts pain on others too, think of those that love you, and to kill yourself because of this guy? how do you think he'd take it, sometimes suicide is a domino effect. think about it

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But I want to know first how he feels about me, then I can talk to him and tell him how I feel! And if he doesnt want me back, then I'll just try to move on!! because he'll tell me he doesnt want me and I'll understand because he told me that directly! but if i dont know how he feels then what to do! And I dont know how he feels then I feel lost!

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Love13

All you can do is ask him what his feelings are. Start a conversation with him on Facebook & when the conversation is right & heading in that direction, maybe slip in "You know I still love you.. What do you think of that?" If he says no, at least he won't see your reaction & you'll k ow that its your time to start to move on :)

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