Hi
I’m a young adult experiencing problems with love, and the most common problem I encounter is falling for someone too fast. I just recently broke up with my lover for 2 years, and my days haven’t been the same. It’s been three months and I want to start moving on. My friends suggested that I start dating again, and so I signed up for an online dating site. I was fortunate to find people to talk to, and I got to know some of them. So, then I started to like one guy and he seemed ok, but then he became so distant all of a sudden. I figured I can’t get stuck on him if he decided not to communicate anymore so I moved on. Finally I found another person who was more than willing to entertain me and I him. Again, we got to know each other and I started to like him ( as in really like) , but then the same thing happened. So I consulted with the school counselor and she adviced not to fall for someone too fast, my problem is, I don’t know how not to, it’s like someone could just approach and sweet talk me and I like him/her already. Please advice. I really want to save myself from.so.much disappointment in the future. Thanks for reading my story and for answering my question