Simple. Do WHATEVER it is you do in real life, and friendly people will come along. A word of advice is don't do anything outrageous for attention. These things can come back on you, and you don't want that. Trust me, there are MANY people online with the same anxiety problems that you have!Create a Tumblr account if you don't have one. It's an online blog.Create a MeetMe account, but don't put tooo much personal information on it.