How to live a more purposeful life?

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I’ve been dealing with my worst enemy for probably as long as I can remember.It just saps out my energy and makes me feel pathetic and useless. I don’t ve many friends,a and most people just sorta walk out on me. I just deal with my loneliness by doing all sorts of things to keep myself busy and not think of it.Is there any other way that you think would just let me focus and stay on track and not get emotional and feel so alone at times. I just want to be like a robot. I anyway don’ have too many friends or love in my life.For all that I can remember, I’ve been single for almost all the time and I never had any good friends round. It’s always been this way.Should I start taking focusing drugs?

Category: asked January 1, 2014

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In my opinion, prescription meds are useless. they cover up a problem and they are not necessary, they are an excuse for people to lose control of themselves and take meds to "make it better." i believe there are many many ways to solve things without putting so many chemicals in your body.
Make a list of things you love and hang it on your wall
make a check off list of things you want to do in life and hang it up
make a check off list of things you want to do in the next 6 months, hang that up
make a list of all your goals! long term ones, short term ones, daily goals, etc!
find your own ways of coping and grounding. listen to music that soothes you, go running, take a hike, go swimming, meditate, smoke some pot (if ya do that) write, read, volunteer places that help you feel who you really wanna be as a person, etc.
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I couple of things to try:Try giving, volunteering, your time. I know it may feel like it won't help you.... just give it a try.Journaling, this, more than anything else, helped me get my life back on trackLong walks and music.Talk therapy.
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You must try something that interest you or for a change you must try something that you doesn't even try yet. Something new to your life so it can be more exciting and fun for you to do. Just like an adventure time. Doing new things in new year. why not also try having a blog. Writing can help you relieve your emotions you can also interact with people through that.
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Personally, I've been wanting to live a more focused life. To do this, I've written down my life goals and then broken them down into smaller, more easily attainable goals. Writing down something I want to do daily in a progress book, ticking it once it's done, helps me to focus of slowly achieving my short term goals which will, in turn, serve my long term goals. It's a way of keeping track of my life so it doesn't feel like the days are running away with me... and I'm able to grow more as a person every day. Also, there are few things more satisfying than helping people here on Blahtherapy. Why not be a listener and see if you feel better after helping someone else out?
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In my experience the best way is try to find friends to connect with, which, yeah I know is easier said than done but if you're looking for a friend I'm always here and could use a good friend myself :)