How to introduce myself?

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Before I begin, sorry for bothering you all with my overdramatic nonsense.

Long story short, there’s a girl who (at least used to) work at the local grocery store in my area that I developed a crush of some sort on pretty quickly, but I’m very shy and nervous, especially about meeting new people, so I never actually talked to her. Now that I’ve finally worked up the courage to get past my issues, I haven’t seen her there in quite a while now, and I don’t know what to do. I don’t think what few mutual friends we have were more than just casual coworkers of hers, so I don’t feel comfortable asking them to introduce me, leaving my only somewhat-seemingly viable option to be to just message her myself, but I don’t know how/if there would be a way to do that without coming on too strong, and it’s starting to really get to me.

Probably just me being overdramatic/overemotional as usual, but I feel like I can’t let this go without at least trying once.

Any advice?

Category: asked January 10, 2015

1 Answer

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First of all you should be confident of yourself here you're in a helping site and we are here to help you so forget all about being shy or feeling sorry for what you share it's totally okay and for your issue I suggest you to ask one of her friends at work and check if she's fine so whenever she's back again she'd know that you asked otherwise message her but that needs you to at least know her so she'd know who's texting when she gets back to work you can start the conversation by hey you'vent been here in a while is everything okay and there you go maybe you can ask her out for coffee or something