One of my friends has been cutting for about the past month, it was just shallow cuts that she claimed were accidents and so i just told her that she was free to talk to me any time and let it be. But within the last week she has gotten worse, she has started cutting deeper and cutting veins. Her boyfriend told me that she has said she wants them to kill themselves together. I’m really worried her, she has been to a few different therapists before and it didn’t help. Now she refuses to see anyone or tell them anything. when i have tried to ask her about it, she breaks down. I doubt her family knows what is going on because she doesn’t talk to any of them often and refuses to. Every time someone brings it up she starts crying and gets worse later. Her boyfriend plans to confront her about it and asked that me and one of her other friends be there. I’m just looking for advice on how to help her, without her shutting down. Any ex self harm people out there with advice?