How to handle possesive jelousy?


How to handle possesive jelousy towards a person you love?
Does it have something to do with low self esteem?
How to boost low self esteem and stop complaing so much?

Category: Tags: asked January 24, 2014

2 Answers

Stop thinking of them as a possession to control. He or she is a human being, an individual apart from yourself, with their own wants, needs, dreams, loves and hates that have nothing to do with you. Their life should not revolve around you and you shouldn't try to make it do so.
By keeping yourself busy taking care of yourself and your life goals, only half of your happiness and nurturing should come from your partner for things to work well, so cultivate yourself, friends and family while they aren't spending time with you.