I have a friend, a female middle school student. She seemed troubled all the time and she always talked to me when she has some problems or such.
Today’s the worst.
She told me her past, and it was horrible. When she was five, she was raped by two people, a father and his son, which is her next-door neighbor. The bad news, she has a problem with acknowledging things and that thing just kept happening until the was eight years old. She’s fourteen now.
She remembered those things when she’s eleven, and that memory destroyed her. She became completely introvert person, never opened up to people until she’s thirteen. She seemed a little better because she was consoled by a friend of hers, but she still talked her problems to me ever since.
Those memories still haunting her, but she said that telling her family about this thing is pointless because it’s too late for her. I tried to convince her to talk to her parents about this, but she feared talking about this thing to her parents will drives her father to kill the rapists and drives her mother insane, and she obviously doesn’t want that to happen. She kept this thing a secret to everyone for roughly nine years, and she just opened this up to me.
It’s obviously not healthy for her, and I want to help her immediately.
I’d really like to hear your thoughts about this, and it would be very helpful if you could share some ways to help this girl, or probably share a way to convince her to get a professional help, since she just keep being stubborn about keeping things a secret to everyone, even if it means that she lets this thing breaks her mind.