My husband and I have been married for over three years. We love each other but have gotten into a rut becoming overly comfortable within our leisure lifestyle. I believe it has gotten boring and critical and my husband wanted to initiate divorce than later a separation.
He moved out to live with his grandfather while he continues to go to school and also work and I’m staying in the rental in which we have a lease under. Its been almost a month and he hasn’t come to a conclusion if he wants to be with me or not. He doesn’t like to text or talk on the phone and also has no interest in visiting me. It’s hurtful because I’m ready to make the change and be a better person now, but is his mind set already? What is taking him so long to make the decision? What is there to think about, shouldn’t it be that you want to be with someone or not? Although he agrees to pay bills and all of his stuff is still here? I can’t seem to see past my cloud of emotional abandonment and impatience.
