How do you move on after losing someone you loved?

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I recently went through a obstacle course of a marriage only to have it end badly with my heart broken and his death only made it worse. We were forced apart against our will and when he died the last messages we sent each other were I miss you. How do you move on after losing someone that way? Someone who made you feel complete and whole and special. For three years we were so happy and in one month we were torn to shreds. How do you move on from that?

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I think that's subject to personal experience. Losing someone you love is a strange thing because even if you know their going to die it always still leaves you shocked. However when its a surprise you're left reeling. I think what you have to strive for, and the hardest part, is acceptance. You don't have to move on, you have to accept his death. He loved you and you loved him and that's all you really know. You will be happy again and you'll also find someone that will make you feel as amazing as he did only in a different way. But you won't simply move on. Remember there are always support groups out there for people like you. There's nothing better than talking to someone who's been through what you have.
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technicaly you don't move on but rather you accept what happened and continue life, not as what it used to be but rather live a new life.i know what you are going through and i know how hard and imposible it may seem to live a new life, but thats the way it should be.they're in a better place as others would say, and were left here to battle with life.our life doesnt stop when they die.and time heals all wound.for me it has been 3years since he died but i havent healed completely yet.and i still cry my self to sleep give yourself time to heal.