How do you make people forget your past?

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I used to be weird and annoying but I now what to make people forget about my past and accept the new me.

Tags: asked November 19, 2013

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Well I think the most effective way of doing that is by showing people that you've changed. Saying you've changed can only do so much but showing the change will definitely leave an impact on people. Plus change is a part of maturing and growing up so the person you were in elementary school/ middle school is different from when you are in high school and so on. So just be the change.
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I don't have a problem putting aside someones past. The problem I find is those that want me to forget the past often repeat the same mistakes or behavior in the present. For some reason they haven't learned from their mistakes or behavior and they expect everyone to put up with it. Forgetting someones past is being able to reestablish the trust that was lost and regain confidence in you. You have to give people every reason to do that and it will take time. The biggest problem I see in people with a past is dishonesty. Sure you can lie all you want but then don't be surprised if people don't trust and respect you. Good Luck!
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The past is what made you who you are today. In all likelihood, in a few months or so, whatever happened will lose it's priority as someone already said, you're gonna change a lot. People around you will, too. We're all human and if someone keeps bringing up issues you want over & done with, yes, own up to it. "Actions speak louder than words" If you've changed, show them you've changed. Let time do it's job.