how do you know where you stand ?

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Im talking to this guy , we call each other babe/baby stuff like that.
We both have Instagram , I have 1104 followers and he has 31k. When he uploads pics , girl comment on it be all flirty and he does it back . I dont say nothing but notice it. I know he’s a flirt , but i feel like there is no progress , but we still do speak all lovey dovey to eachother. so where do i stand in this ?

Category: asked September 12, 2013

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Hi Nenee, Welcome to the Community!

Before you find “the one,” you’ll date a bunch of other ones. Only the truly lucky find a great relationship built on compatibility, mutual respect, and sexual attraction early on. Most of us have to have all the other types of relationships, to understand what a functional relationship should look like.

Currently I think this is nothing much more than a "Open-Relationship". In this relationship, the two individuals are emotionally committed to one another, but are both free to interact with other people. Commonly known or identified as the "Flirty Type"; This type of relationship mostly only works when both parties aren’t that emotionally invested in one another.

My Advice; Unless there's an emotional attachment or a formal agreement between both of you. RUN!

Otherwise, I would suggest to actually communicate and let time guide you through the stages of your mutual agreement.

Best Wishes To Ya!