How do you get over an ex that you still have feelings for?

He seems to be someone who has depression and alot of sad feelings but holds it all in and doesnt want to talk at all. I feel like people like that just need time to feel better about there life so they can then look back on how they were and talk about it and not feel ashamed or depressed because they are over that stage.

You're relationship didn't end badly. Which is good. Best thing to do is show support! Sometimes it's hard to open up to someone you are seeing intimately. So, my best advice is always be there for him and let him know you care.Also, note. Don't lose yourself in the process of being his support and don't get your hopes up if things don't work out. Just be ther for him and again support him as much or as little as you can.