How do you cure a broken heart?

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My boyfriend dumped me yesterday and I wonder what can I do to heal , I love him so much and I wan’t him back . for the record he has cheated on me more than once ,, actually more than anyone has ever did in his life :/

Category: Tags: asked December 16, 2013

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Hi miss, that's one sad name you got there. You know, if this guy cheated on you repeatedly then he forgot what respect and love was about. And no one deserves to be humiliated like that. So you go out there, be proud of yourself because you're an amazing person and you'll find someone who knows how to love you the right way. Forget about him, he's not worth a heartbreak ;) Take care of yourself first and people will care about you more.
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:( im so sorry. I know you must be feeling really sad and hurt but that is normal to feel! You dont have to be strong immediately after someone hurt you.. take time to grieve over the breakup. But do not turn to him to help you get through this! I know you want to talk to him and you miss him.. but please trust me, if you try talking to him or 'staying friends' it will end up hurting you more. So in that sense, take this time for YOU and to heal your broken heart. Dont let him influence you or 'comfort' you right now because youll only end up wanting him back even more. I know that you really love him right now but it doesnt seem like hes very mature and respectful if hes willing to cheat on someone who loves him. It will all make sense one day in the future, I promise, but right now you NEED to seperate from him completely and take care of yourself. If you need to talk more- message me! Im here if you need to vent or whatever.. I know its really hard. :/
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I'm really sorry to hear this! My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago and at first it was really hard all I focused on was getting him back and that was the worst thing I could of done. The best thing I did was cry. I cried a lot and it was the first time I had ever cried in front of my family. I just kept talking about it and saying how I felt and eventually the tears have started falling less. Its a very slow process unfortunately. I think the best thing to do would be to surround yourself with people, go out and have fun, try to laugh and smile but don't be afraid to burst out crying in a public place, its completely fine to do that. I think this is a really good opportunity to look after and care for yourself. There may of been a few things you missed out on because you was with him so, if you can, do those things. Learn to be on your own again. You'll probably text him and try to get hold of him and you'll regret it. I just think that you need to do whatever you want. Just make sure if you do get in touch with him he doesn't hurt you anymore than he has. Hold your head high, shout to the world that he hurt you but show everyone that you can come back fighting!