How do I work out my love triangle?

I am dating this guy named Donald, and we’re are trying the long distance thing. He loves in Pennsylvania, and I live in Alabama. I have known him for 10 months, and I really love him, but he always asks me things like “do you finger yourself?” Or stuff like that, which creeps me out cause I’m 14, and he is too. Then there is Zedo, who I am gravely in love with, and have been for a year, who I dated, and he used me, cheated on me, and everything else. He used to try to f*ck me and all that, and he’s 17. He always, ALWAYS talked about sex. Then there is Braeden, who is 13, who I knew for 7 months, and I really like him. My friend Kiersten, and my ex friend Nina got in a fight, and kiersten punched her in the face, and I felt bad for Nina. So I stood up for her. Everyone got mad at me, and Braeden said he would do anything for me. All three of those guys know I like them, and they all like me. I just need to know your guys’ opinions on who I should be with, and who is right for me.

Category: Dating & Relationships asked March 12, 2014

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Nichole82

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Forget both, seriously, I'm 14, but if you really wanna chose, the one from Pennsylvania seems better since he is just curious and it's quite normal in your age boys trying to find out these things. If you need to know more you may ask me, I've been there

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Zack

Sweetheart, you deserve better. Don't let these boys make you feel like you have to do anything that you aren't ready for. It sounds like this Braeden actually cares for you as a person and a friend. That is what you need. Not immature guys.

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noworries1620

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Wow. That's a crazy situation. If I were in your shoes I would probably take a dating sabbatical.
Long distance relationships are difficult to maintain. Your ex is untrustworthy (once a cheater always a cheater). And you don't seem nearly as interested in the third guy. Maybe take a little break and figure out what you want? You're young and have lots of time to date.

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punky

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I am really interested in Braeden, I have cared about him and really like him a lot. He does too. I want to break up with the guy from Pennsylvania, but I don't know how

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Nichole82

Me and Braden are friends, he walks me to most of my classes, and holds the door for me, and gentlemen stuff. We have our jokes, and we are just friends. But maybe in like 1 year, we could try being more than friends, cause I really like him. My dad, he doesn't like Zedo, at al, he doesn't know Donald, but he doesn't know Braeden either, but he would like Braeden. I tell my dad about all my crushes, or boyfriends now. And I think Braeden, would make me mush happier than the other two. Sometimes I forget about Donald, and forget I'm dating him.

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