How do I tell my family I love him?

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My boyfriend and I have a different age and he’s a bit older than I am. This is the third time we’ve been together because my family kept splitting us apart. No, I don’t believe that he wants just sex because why would he keep coming back to ME? He could get it from anyone else. I love him, I really do and I want my family to just listen to me. I want them to understand that they can either be apart of my life WITH JON or not at all. He has a good job, he’s very stable and I just want them to all get along with him. I want them to listen to both me and Jon and understand that we love each other..

Category: Tags: asked November 25, 2014

3 Answers

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Maybe invite him over to meet your parents...You can't and shouldn't have to walk away from your love. Just keep pushing through and prove to them he cares about you...If he really does, it won't be hard for them to see it. It may just take time. Best wishes to you.
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I actually like someone who is ten years older then me and I mean I really like him and I thought maybe he wants me just for sex but then I started realizing he has a good job and I don't I spend my days at school but he seems like he cares about me. I look at him and I think maybe this is the guy that might change the way I think about myself. I spent many years hating myself never thinking im good enough and with him I feel human. You are the one that has to deal with your life and you are the one that wakes up every day with the feeling that you are in love but also hurting. Tell your parents you love and respect that they care for you but the heart knows what it wants and if you want him go for him. Life has it ups and down and it is not because of the age. DO what makes you happy because you don't want to wake up one morning and say damn I wish I would have done that. my doors are always opened if you want to talk we are going through something almost similar because I'm still wondering if this man ever ask me out how do I explain it to my parents
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Well he probably knows that you love him, and if you love him youre easy for him to get sex from. just sayin'