How do I make myself more social?

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I can’t seem to talk to people I just get super nervous and end up plugging my headphones in to block everything out. How should I get over the need to do that?

asked February 2, 2014

3 Answers

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well its not so compulsory to blend in everywhere so firstly stop being so anxious. u do have your own personality, so if u find any conversation interesting and u have an input, u can say it and the conversations continue. again, its not necessary to barge into anything if u r not comfortable. ultimately nothing else matters. weather u r social or introvert or people magnet. only thing that matters is how much YOU enjoy living, its your life after all. so u dont HAVE to do anything unless u r comfortable. chill.
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My advice would be to push yourself. It's very difficult, but the more you force yourself into social situations, the less sensitive you are to them. I find it very difficult to be around large groups of people, especially those I don't know. This summer I had to train to be an RA at my college, and it involved a week-long training session where all we did were ice breakers with fellow RA's. To some people that would be fun, but to me it was a nightmare. I cried and was constantly dreading each moment of socialization, but I pushed myself and I grew from it. It's never easy and it might not get 100% better, but it does get easier. As do all things with practice.
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Practice, start off by talking to the cashiers at stores and then start talking to random people and make new friends.Trust me it works, I went through the same thing. :)