How do I let her Go?

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I fell in love with my best friend well over 12 months ago and the past year has been so emotionally draining. I kept tricking myself into believing that she felt the same way but I know that she is straight I just keep on think ‘what if’. I need to stop it but How can I? I know how lucky I am to have her in my life and she matters more to me than the truth does so I am willing to live a lie for her. I couldn’t tell her; I’d be risking too much. But what can I do to let her go?

Category: asked August 31, 2014

5 Answers

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If you love her than seeing her happy and being there to support her through life as a friend should be good enough because at least you are in her life as someone important. It may be hard to see her with other guys or looking at other guys but you have to keep in mind that she'll be happy and that's probably what you want most. If you decide to move out of her life because you can't handle it, it might hurt her because she's loosing a friend as well as it could hurt you; I'd say as well it would be for a selfish reason. If you must though, I'd just not text her unless she texts you (same with talking), and if she asks to hang out just say your busy and after a while she'll just kinda disappear as a friend
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ill just say this. the more time you spend chasing somone who doesnt want you, the less time you have to find the one who is truley meant to be your soulmate ~Advice Ally
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So you are in love with this person and you haven't told her? First off... I think you should tell her regardless. Only mean people reject acts and declarations of love. What is the worse that can happen? So what if she doesn't feel the same... that is fine. One day someone that likes you may tell you how they feel and you don't feel the same... doesn't mean you crush them over it, you just don't feel the same. Love doesn't weaken us... it strengthens us and that is why we enjoy it so much... it conquers fear and breaks through all ideas and discrimination.

Let her go? Even if you choose to not say anything... why would you want to let her go? Keep her in your heart... and love her to bits. Just don't over step the bounds and context of your relationship to do it. Why is it people think they will only love someone if that person loves them in return? Seems selfish... I (try) love everyone and don't care if you love me back... my love is open and free and it doesn't weaken me.
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Well.... Maybe give her small hints that slowly tell her that you like her... If u don't wanna just tell be upfront. So give her more n get her really nice gift and stuff... Just become really close and the bond is what matter.And go with your gut!
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Based on context clues, i could tell that you are a girl and she is a girl too and well she is straight and you are not. My tip for you is that if she is a self proclaimed straight person just leave her alone don't abandon her friendship but stop trying to make her fall in love with you. That`s if really value her frienship