I’ve been dating this guy for a really long time now and lately things have been getting really rough. I have tried many different things but nothing ever seemed to work, not even the things he told me would help his problems with how we were working. I live about two and a half hours away from him, not too far, and see him every two weeks from late Friday night to about dinner time Sunday. The two of us have always fought over stupid things, but the fights are getting worse and more serious. It has now gotten to the point where I cannot trust him with anything because he constantly lies. He goes behind my back all the time to talk bad about me and a lot of people keep telling me that he has been with many other girls and picked up drugs. I know the easy way would be to leave him, but he means more to me than anything else ever has. And even after thinking about this relationship multiple times, I still want it and he has said the same thing. I want to know how I can get him to stop lying, stop treating me poorly, and start showing he cares before it gets too late. I know it’s up to him to do, but is there anything I can do to fix this falling relationship?
