how do i get over a straight girl

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I like my best friend who is straight (i am les) but she knows I get horny easily and thinks that I am not serious about liking her. She lead me on and still does but I know she isn’t serious. By lead me on I mean she actually did things with me. I wanna know how to get over her because she’s a bitch …but I love that bitch

Category: asked June 27, 2013

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Perhaps she truly does have feelings for you and thats why she has been physically involved with you? Maybe she just doesn't know how to vocalize those feelings and she is confused? Even if this isn't the case its not fair for her to be leading you on and then shutting you down. I think you need to be honest with her... if you want to save the friendship that is. Tell her its not okay for her to be taking advantage of you and your feelings. If she is a true friend she will understand, apologize, and change her actions. I wish the best for you.
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I have been in kind of similar situation before, she is straight and I'm still not sure about my sexuality. She got a bf, he was the main reason she broke off our friendship and I losing my very best friend. It's been 3 years; I’m still not completely over her. Now when I think about it, I guess she was just having fun without having that kind of feelings for me. And I have come to terms that it's best not to mix friendship with love. It never turns out good. I lost my bff because of all this mess. Talk to her, ask her how she feels about what you guys had before and like daisy said may be she have feelings for you and doesn't know how to approach about the situation. And if she truly considers you her bff, you have to tell her to stop leading you on and doing stuff; it's only going to ruin your friendship. Good luck to you