please consider this: different people have a different need in 'being open', and we define 'being open' quite differently, too. maybe your friend feels satiated just spending time together with you. or maybe she is content with just mentioning the news, without analyzing them. what i mean to say is that she doesn't necessarily keep secrets from you; perhaps her way of experiencing life is merely more laconic. :) and if there's anything in particular that you'd like to know about her, you can just ask, right?