How do I feel enthusiastic about things again?

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Hello,

I have this problem… I can’t enjoy the things I like anymore. I love reading, but I can’t focus. When I’m alone my head just doesn’t shut up. I think all the time. I just can’t relax… I’m about to end my studies at the university and it’s really hard to find a job nowadays. I’m going to Poland this summer to study Polish and I’ll try to find a job there, but I feel scared. Plus, I don’t get on with my flatmates and this semester’s being really hard for me. That doesn’t really matter because I’m leaving this flat and this town in two weeks… But then I think of my friends and how much I’m going to miss them and I feel anxious and overwhelmed… I don’t know. I feel like my life’s a mess right now. And though I only have to wait two weeks to go back home and feel loved and safe again. But these are my last days at the university after all, and I’d like to live them joyfully. Or at least, not so anxious… Any suggestion? Thank you very much for your help.

PS: I’m new here. And I was wondering… How often do people say goodbye before leaving a conversation in the chat? Because nobody did yet. They just go. Is that normal?

asked June 9, 2013

2 Answers

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I guess there isn't really a set answer to that you know? I definitely can recall a time where I really didn't care about anything or anyone but as you mature and you look back you realize how selfish you might have been or perhaps things weren't as bad as you are making it seem. Again it takes time. And I'm sure right now you are experiencing a hard point in your life, being younger than you I guess I can't really say anything but I know that being in your mid-twenties is tough you know? People come and go, as for your anxiety do things that you love to do enjoy the time that you have.I think most people tend not to say goodbye but it could be disconected and whatnot, don't let it get to you.
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i have never been in the chat so i do not know how that works, but i wil say to you welcome to the site. most here are polite and honest and caring, and have your best interest at heart.