Quite honestly, I'm with you on this. I literally do not know how to relax. Probably the closest I got was just throwing myself in to a project at work & looking up crafting ideas on pinterest. I don't relax so much as I distract myself. I do find though that a warm drink tends to help, but that's likely because I get more stressed when I'm cold. So essentially my method is a repetitive task or craft and a comfortable temperature.