How can I make bullying stop?

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I always get picked on in class and get called names. I barely have any friends or anyone to talk to. Finally my mother is getting me out of the school I am currently enrolled in and they are making it worse. The people are saying I’m stupid and can’t do it. They know some of the kids at the other school I’m going to. They are making my life miserable and my mother isn’t helping. She gets mad when I asked to leave class so I don’t blow up. I don’t know what to do? I am thinking about suicide extremely bad right now. I can’t deal with this anymore. Please help

Category: asked September 23, 2014

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Well firstly, don't do anything to yourself. This is a priority. If you REALLY feel suicidal, just say "I'll wait 1 week before I do anything." Give yourself some time to hope for a change. If you want your mother to understand, then you'll have to take the initiative in making her understand. You have to confront your parents maturely and in the right mindset otherwise you can't present yourself properly. If you wish for people to stop picking on you, then you're going to have to ask for help, fight back, or even potentially run away, you can't just say "I'm fine with it." and keep taking it if it is making you consider suicide. Realize the your life is important and that you CARE about your life. You don't want to die do you? You just want the problems to stop. If Life wants to fuck with you, fuck with it. Change things, mutilate life until it understands that it can't mess you up. You can't just give up and run away from it all... that's like saying you don't care about being able to live. Wouldn't you want to live a life full of happiness? If you do, you're going to have to be the one who stands up and change things.
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I have been bullied for most of my life. Even now that i am 27, it still happens and I can really get mad and upset about it. Though I started to learn to adapt to some sorts of bullying. I can tell you one thing that helped me get past these issues, it was learning to not care what these people say as much. There will be a part of you that may feel hurt by what they say. Truthfully I do get bothered by it sometimes but showing other people that what they say bothers you will only make them do it more. It takes time to understand how to conquer not letting your feelings get the best of you when others make fun of you. Though being able to bounce back and show these people that it doesn't bother you will pay off in the end. Sometimes by showing whoever is bullying you that what they say doesn't bother you it can open up new doors to meeting new people. To them it shows a form or respect that you don't get offended so easily. This form of behavior never made sense to me but its working better now that i stopped being over sensitive. I hope this helps.
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I don't know what year of school you are in, but personally, middle school and high school were the absolute worst. I want you to know that it gets better. It's probably going to be a daily challenge, but hang in there. Just get through school, and once you graduate, you have the whole rest of your life ahead of you to meet new people and do things you want to do. I decided to go to college after I graduated high school, and I have met so many wonderful people and some of my best friends. I'm sorry people are cruel to you, but one day the mean things they say to you now won't even matter.
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Send me a private message, and I'll try my hardest to help you out.
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Picked on, get called names, and a mom who doesn't understand; this makes you consider suicide? You're kidding, right? Yeah, young people can be stupid and cruel, that's what can happen before you develop further. Get some thicker skin and move on.