How can I let my parents know how I feel about our family problems?

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My mom was dating a tomboy when I was 7-8 years old and my parents were still married. My mom left the tomboy a few months ago, but I think they are together again. It’s really upsetting me because my parents fight a lot now. Also, my little sister is spoiled because of him/her. The tomboy has brainwashed my little sister into thinking that he/she is better because he/she gives my little sister presents. He/she has done this to me before and once I fell for his/her trap I barely saw my mom because the tomboy took advantage of me and I would let my mom see him/her.

Category: Tags: asked June 6, 2013

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Take the time to talk to your mom about this. Be honest and tell her how all of this makes you feel and how it might be affecting your family. Hopefully, she will respond well, and maybe give you some insight about her actions. That doesn't mean that what she's doing is okay, but maybe trying to understand her will get her to open up. But there is the possibility that will won't respond well or at all. At that point, if it was me, I would find the courage to tell my dad. Yes, it might lead to unpleasantness, but it's better to express yourself if you are hurting and others around you are being deceived.
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this is one of those stuff you need to tell your mom in privet.cause you don't know what might happen if you just say it at the dinner table. first go your mom and let her know of what you think , if you don't you might ruin what your parents have. so after you go to your mom , if you didn't get any result , go to your father , after all he loves you and your sister , he knows the best. what ever you do , don't keep it in , cause it will turn to anger. good luck! :)
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Let your mom know how you feel about this person. She can't read your mind. I know it's hard to tell her about it, especially about something like this, but she's your mom and she should know.