I’ve vented here a small number of times and thoroughly on my profile, but as I look into my best friends’ lives, I’m seeing problems like my own. I’m almost out of them now, ready to start “recovering,” and I want to brighten my two friends when they’re down from their inevitable, oncoming issues. The greatest problem here is that I’ve *only* vented, I’ve *only* been the patient, I’ve *only* been helped, which I can’t stop appreciating.
What is it to listeners that makes them comforting, and how can I be one of them? I really want to “be there” for these two guys, but I don’t even see a clear meaning to that.
(This is crazily ironic, too; I’m seeking out help on helping.)