High school Boy problems

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I understand most people think this might be silly since its only high school, but I’m stressing over this so bear with me. I’ve been crushing on this guy since sixth grade when I first transferred to this school, and we got closer last year for having almost every class together. It’s rumored that he liked me too, but sometimes I have doubts. I can honestly say I love him because he makes me smile, worries and just understands. I can’t make a week without him and summer’s been bad. We were like a romantic movie couple. However, we’re going back to school in a few days, and he’s not in any of my classes and he’s going to be around pretty girls a lot. I’m scared everything we have will fall apart. I don’t want to be clingy and annoying though. Advice from both guys and girls appreciated.

Category: Tags: asked August 12, 2013

6 Answers

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Keep in contact with him. Talk to him between classes. Ask him about his feelings. If he feels the same, he won't bother with those pretty girls. In his eyes, you'll be the only pretty girl.
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Hey Vanessa, I just wanna say... If he makes you happy, then tell him how you feel. You have to tell him or else he'll never know. I think that you should definitely tell him because me, being a guy in high school, honestly think that girls should tell guys when they like them. If you do tell him it'll make his day, trust me. Good luck, and I hope everything turns out well.Best of luck, Mr feel-good
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Hi Vanessa, I really understand you.. And I don't think this is silly...I think this is a cute feeling.. So, I think you should talk with him, let him know about what you feel! You should talk w/ him, just a calm chat, be calm, breath and explaim that you are in love with him since a long time! I think it's a good thing o do, at least if I was you it's what I would do. Try do one more step on this love story :) Go ahead girl! remember to be yourself! :) I believe in you Vanessa.. and after you talk with him, tell me what happened :) good luck!
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I was in your position about a year ago! I know it goes against everything in your brain, but you really should point blank ask him if he likes you. If he does, it's awesome because hey! The guy you like really likes you! If not, well you don't have to worry about it which is good for you to be able to move on if need be. I know you don't want to, god knows I didn't when I went through the same thing, but he might be just as nervous as you are about it! If he really likes you, pretty girls won't matter to him, and if you're really worried about it, again, he's not yours until he's "yours" you know? If you don't want to risk it, ask to talk or hang out and then be like "so...I've heard someone really likes me." and see if he takes the bait. Good luck! Don't ever let anyone say that high school relationships aren't important, because trust me, they are. They're fun and exciting and really a good thing!
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It's not silly, I had a crush on the same person for many years when I was in school, butterflies every time I saw him, the works. Maintain contact with him if it feels right. Also tell him how you feel, if he doesn't share the feelings you haven't really lost anything, time heals all wounds, even better if he does! A few people often end up marrying their first love, so give it a go and good luck. :)
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If you want to really keep him you have to be very optimistic and not show your uncool panicking all over school, maintaining popularity is important.Be sure to visit him often or have other activities after school such as studying together, going out etc, if you org are over 16, engaging in sexual activity can very highly often your relationship, just be carefu and use protection.The greatest thing you have to fear is what other girls can offer that you did not. Keep a high level of self respect. learn more about his interests such as soccer, video games ad whatnot talking about stuff that interests him makes him enjoy his time with you more than others.