HELP !!! is he ? is he not ?

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so i have this crush for more 7 months now , we’ve met at a voluntary work ,we talked and hanged out couple of times and then he went back to his country only then we started “talking=texting” every day about everything … EVERYTHING !and we enjoyed sharing the tinniest details and opening up and our everyday lives . now, he is coming back here and he is staying for the next couple of years .i thought he liked me at first .
but now he is coming , he hadn’t spoken to me in weeks ! and when i texted him he answered wierdly … i thought he liked me and that when he is back we could start a normal relationship . the problem is , now he’s done i feel like he is pushing me away or he likes someone else , am not sure if he likes me back and wants to go for this relationship or not !?
is he still likes me or not !!??? am really confused and i need your HELP !
he is an INTJ and am an ENFP

Category: asked November 24, 2014

2 Answers

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maybe you are just over thinking too much.if you are sure about your feelings for him and want to push it further,then just simply talk to him about it.you own't find any answer keeping it to yourself. over thinking too much will only make you feel insecure.i'm just guessing but it feels like you guys don't talk much on phone so you can bring this topic on phone with him or text him clearly,let him know about your feelings.you have to hear his answers so that you can come to terms about your feelings.you may be nervous or feel embarrassed about it but trust me open communication is important for every relationship.hope you'll talk to him and sort i out with him :)
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We really can't answer for him. Then only way to find out is to sit him down and talk about it.