I may not be a mother, but having children would definitely change your lifestyle. By having a child you are creating another human life, one that will always care for you and be there for you. They will do the sweetest things and and make you laugh a lot by the simple things they don't understand and every milestone they hit, will make you cry because it is such a happy, memorable moment. But that isn't to say it won't be hard work. The first 5 years are the hardest, the late night, constant crying, always hungry. it will get easier as they grow up, as they start to become independent. But the choice really, is up to you. Imagine your family, do you see more than just your partner and yourself?