Could you be with someone that hates all Holidays and Birthdays? My boyfriend is one of these people who thinks holidays are like every other day. For example Valentines day, did we do anything? Nope. I left him a little sweet valentines day package because i thought it was cute. Yesterday we were talking about our relationship and he said the fact that I did that made him stress, stress about the relationship and how he isn’t putting in enough effort as he could be. (he’s severely depressed and because of that lacks motivation at the moment) He’s in a huge stress rut right now. Also doesn’t want my help, so i’m letting him do his own thing. I myself am someone who LOVES HOLIDAYS and loves birthdays, I try my best to make my significant other feel as important as possible, but he says it stresses him out. I can ease up on it, and he will spend my birthday with me because it makes me happy, so why can’t he apply that to other Holidays? because it makes ME happy.
Edit: In general he just wants to be alone on these holidays.
