Going through a rough time.

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There’s this girl that I’ve been really really close with and we used to be amazing with each other wanting to talk a lot all the time. But now when she feels she’s getting too close to me she’ll push herself away and does this everytime leaving me alone until we barely talk any. And I’ve gotten help and advice on here before, the biggest thing was to just let her to because she isn’t truly worth it. But, that’s the most hard part because it’s hard to lose her, she’s an important person in my life and I just get bad anxiety thinking about losing her. But, the way she’s treating me and leaving me when I do my best to make things better, I really do have to end all ties with her. It’s just going to be extremely hard because she’s someone I’d talk to from morning to night and it’s just going to fill dull without her now. I’m just hoping someone/anyone can give me some advice? It’s all just happening too fast and sucks that I’m going through this alone. :/

Category: asked May 13, 2014

2 Answers

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I feel like this has happened with me before, and it does truly suck. If you do talk all day, then yes there are going to be some lulls, but you can always talk to other people. Just because they aren't her doesn't mean they can't be a good friend. Giving up someone you love is the hardest thing, I'm not going to lie. But keeping your mind off of it helps so much. I have this app called Meow, where you can connect to random people all the time. If you really do need someone to talk to when you're bored or miss her, you should try it out.mit is really handy when you need to vent or get your mind off of something. You can make some really good friends. If this friendship isn't satisfying or is hurting you more than it's making you happy, it's not worth it. I know it's hard, but people change and life moves on. Stay strong :) you can always talk to me if you need!
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I'm sorry that you're going through this rough time. :( Do you have a therapist that you can talk it through with? That could help a lot. I would suggest talking to this girl. Ask her why she's acting the way she is and explain how much it hurts you.