Friendshipish help

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There’s a boy at my school, and no one likes him. Seriously he has no friends, but seeing him all alone I feel sorry for him and well, I talk to him occasionally and things. But the problem is his personality, the reason no one likes him is because of this, he sucks up to teachers, ditches you if he thinks you’re not smart enough for the work and just changes his voice and begs when he wants something. he always asks me for food and won’t help anyone if they are in need for anything such as homework help. He’s one of the smartest kid at school. So I know, I really do know that I’m just a shield for him so that he has someone to talk to when he needs it. I know I’m being used but I can’t help but feel sorry for him. So I let it be. At times he asks me to sit with him when I actually want to sit with my friends, i’m in a dilemma…because he has no one to sit with…so. I don’t want him to be alone, but sometimes i don’t really like him. I don’t know what to do.

Category: asked April 1, 2013

2 Answers

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I have a friend like that. He is a very...eccentric character. Sometimes he is fun to be around, but often, I would love to feed him my right hand at high speeds. It is a tricky situation. You might try and tell him how his antics make you feel; its a long shot, but it just might work. Otherwise, I cannot say too much
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I agree with @Sentinel's comment, you should definitely let him know how you feel. As for the part where you said he asks you to sit with him when you want to sit with your friends--maybe you can let him chill with you and your friends sometimes (if your friends don't mind).But overall, if you think his personality is the reason this guy doesn't have any friends then you should give him a little advice. If he still persists, than you shouldn't really feel bad; you've done all you can at that point and definitely shouldn't feel guilty for hanging out with your friends after trying to talk to him.Hope you work it out! :)