Found out stuff about girlfriend

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Recent relationship …
Dating for 1 week
Know her for a long time
Started dating and as soon as I did people came to me telling me she was a slut, that she sent naked pics to other guys and that she was always being a perv with several more.
She told me that was her past and that she was not proud of it.
Still, she never did it wile she was into me.
Should I give her a chance to prove that she changed ?
I’m really confused .. I don’t know if I can trust her …

Category: Tags: asked March 12, 2014

9 Answers

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She deserves a fresh start. You both deserve a redo on this first week. Please don't judge her. How many things in our own pasts, that if we could go back in time, we would change. No one is perfect.The past is history, tomorrow is a mystery, and the now is a gift. That is why it is called the present. Enjoy the now.:)
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I believe that if you have feelings for her, or honestly want to be with her you shouldn't let her past affect the future. And you have no reason to distrust her until she gives you a reason to. And never let anyone tell you how to date.
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Yes you should giver her a chance, but keep a close eye on her. Give her one chance to prover herself to you(: message me for more help!
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She cried when she found out I knew about it ... she was so ashamed about herself that she wanted to erase everything and start a new life with me (i'm 22), she even wanted to delete her Facebook and social pages / change number, etc
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Being sexual is human nature. You shouldn't judge her on that."Still, she never did it wile she was into me." That right there proves that she probably has 'changed'. And moreso, that she wants this to be more than what shes had in the past. If she was only interested in a fling, you'd have pictures of her naked already.Sending out pictures doesn't make a girl a slut. If the tables were turned, would you want her to end the relationship because you had sent some photos to girls you were interested in? Of course not.In order to find out this relationships potential, you need to leave the past in the past. Anything both you or she did before your relationship, has nothing to do with your relationship. You're setting yourself up for failure if you're paranoid about whats happened before you.
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And yes you should trust her, but not too much. To an extent.
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Like everyone has said, i think she does deserve a chance. She was honest to you about that being her past. Give her a chance (: Goodluck!
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People said the same to me. But now my gf and I have been together for 9 months.
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don't give her chance, she isn't worth it. trust me. get rid of her. once slut, always slut.