First Time Tinder Experience

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Long story short, I met this guy on tinder last night, we started sexting, and now my anxiety is at an all time high. I don’t regret doing it, it’s just that it was a new experience. I’ve never done that with someone I’ve just met and it was with a guy (I’m a bisexual girl who has only been with girls). My anxiety doesn’t like new things, and so it is freaking out. I guess I’m more so just looking for validation that what I did wasn’t wrong just because it’s different (fully legal and consensual) and that it’s just my anxiety talking.

Category: Tags: asked September 29, 2014

3 Answers

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There's definitely nothing wrong with sexting with another man. If you both enjoyed it and it was a good time, and everyone respected each other's boundaries, that's totally awesome and sounds like fun! I definitely get the anxiety creeping up because of a new experience - it has a tendency to do that even if the experience is new and fun and exciting, which is a real buzzkill but one of the realities of anxiety.
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It's just your anxiety. You know how anxiety can get you workd up over literally nothing? There is nothing to be worried about, be happy for the new experience you just had!
Good luck and enjoy life.
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There is nothing wrong with any consensual sexual activity. Just make sure you know what you are comfortable with and set clear boundaries with anyone you chat with or make plans to meet. And if you do meet in person, be sure to meet in a public place, and let a friend know where you will be. It's important to safeguard yourself until you are sure the person you are meeting is a decent human being!