Everyone keeps leaving me, help please?

Hi, lately I’ve been abandoned and ignored a lot. I used to have lots of friends, in real life and in a lot of places on the Internet. I could tell that they really liked me, and we had many fun memories. But now it seems like everyone thinks I’m annoying. Almost all of my “friends” ignore me regularly and don’t invite me to things, and I’ve been having terrible self-esteem issues and now I’m extremely insecure. I miss my friends, and I want them back but they purposely are ignoring me and leaving me out.

Did this just happen because they changed, or what it because of me they left me? If someone’s been through this before, can you tell me what you did to get them back/get over them, or does anyone have any ideas about what to do? Thanks.

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Annelise

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Well for one you can write to me whenever you want to. I understand where you are coming from. There was a time were I felt that I had so many people that I could talk to but then they disappeared. It happened to me when my boyfriend just randomly disappeared on me. We talked everyday and we were together for a few years but then bomb he was gone. Things changed and for some reason people that were once our friend leave and its okay it is part of life. We can always talk when you want to and sometimes it is better to have a dollar then 100 pennies

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Christine Daae

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Feel free to contact me whenever you need to talk! But to answer your question, no it wasn't because of you. People are fickle and get caught up on their own problems that sometimes they forget about the people around them. When I went to college, I felt my high school friends drifting away from me. So I reached out to them, some of them never responded back but a few did. I made it known how much I valued their friendship and while I only talk to two of those friends. They have helped me through some tough times. My advice is to reach out to them, tell them how you feel. I hope it works out for you!

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Frozen Heart

I understand how you feel... Everyone left me because I was sad. I don't know why, but lets say it didnt help my current situation... If you ever feel like this contact me and we can both be there for one another.

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