Personally, I do not think age matters. I agree with the people here who say that as well. Because People live different experiences, see different things, and behave differently it's going to result in a different perspective regardless. A serendipitous_ friendserendipitous, and DKettering are right in saying that. If anything, I think what matters as serendipitous has put is the ability to sympathize, and maturity. Moreover the ability to communicate and pick up on a venter's change in tone. It may be hard to do that here on blahtherapy, but it's important to notice when the word-usage goes from passive to aggressive. Namely, and this is just an extreme example, but does the listener go from agreeing with you to, using bad language or describing things in a dark manner? Again, that's an extreme example, but being able to pick up on slight things like that could let you know if the venter's negative feelings are still there, or if you are making things worse. so, I really stress that your focus be on maturity, communication, and if possible sympathy. If you feel uncomfortable, or stuck I think the best thing to do is recommend the therapist service here, or let the venter know in a polite manner that you can't help. It kind of stinks to have to do that, but I don't think good intentional people would desire to make the venter feel worse regardless. I just think that as someone who is coming on here asking there questions, that you are a good intentional person. I'm sorry about the doubt you may have, and in no way do I want you to feel forced into doing anything thing. I just would hope to see that you understand that age has nothing to do with a person's ability to sympathize or handle a situation maturely. It's the events, and actions of the listener that reflects a listeners capabilities.
